A Turning Point: Introduction to the Girls Resource Centre

Four years ago, Sabila’s life took a turn when she came to know about the Girls Resource Centre (GRC), an initiative by Ibtada under its “Girls Education and Empowerment Program”. The Ibtada team reached out to Sabila’s family to encourage her participation, but they were reluctant. Despite resistance, Sabila was eager to join. With consistent persuasion from Ibtada and encouragement from other girls in the village, her family finally allowed her to enroll in GRC while she was in Class 8.

This was not just the beginning of a learning journey for Sabila—it was the start of a quiet revolution.

Fighting the Odds: Education Against All Barriers

Sabila faced constant resistance from her family, especially her father and brother, when she expressed her desire to continue her education beyond Class 8. After multiple counselling sessions by the Ibtada team, she managed to submit her Class 10 admission form just two hours before the deadline. Her determination paid off—she passed Class 10 with first division. 

Once again, the challenge resurfaced when she wanted to enroll in Class 12. Her persistence and the support of Ibtada helped her overcome resistance yet again. She not only enrolled but excelled—securing second rank in her school in Class 12. In parallel, Sabila participated in Ibtada’s online tuition classes for students of Classes 6 to 10, which helped her improve her grasp of English, Math, and Science. These sessions significantly strengthened her academic foundation and boosted her confidence.

Stepping Forward: Pursuing Higher Education

Now in the second year of her Bachelor of Arts, Sabila continues to move forward with resilience. Her father and brother, once against her education, began to soften their stance—largely due to the behind-the-scenes support of her mother and aunt.

However, financial constraints posed another major hurdle. That’s where Ibtada’s “Shiksha Ki Udaan” program stepped in, offering Sabila annual support of Rs. 8,000 for travel and Rs. 4,200 for college fees. Her family, now more supportive, contributes Rs. 13,200 annually to both expenses.

Due to regular involvement in “Life Skill Education” (LSE) sessions at GRC, she developed self-awareness, decision-making and communication skills, which helped her to put forward her demand for studies to her father and brother. Also, the GRC group played a very important role in convince her parents, navigate challenges, and keep her motivated to continue her studies.

Impact Beyond One Girl: A Village Transformed

Sabila’s transformation is just one part of a broader change in Thanaghora. The Girls Education and Empowerment Program has had a powerful ripple effect:

• Community Contribution: Villagers now contribute to recharge internet data packs for GRC, showcasing ownership.

• Improved Knowledge & Skills: Girls are more aware of menstrual health and hygiene, breaking myths and taboos. Open Conversations: Menstruation is now openly discussed, and girls are confidently stepping out for education and work.

• Leadership & Awareness: Girls are taking active roles in sports, health, and village-level events. They understand time management, career choices, and family planning.

• Child Marriage: Once a norm, it has now been completely stopped in the village.

• Collective Action: Girls collectively take stands to assert their rights and ensure continued education.

• Changed Mindsets: Sabila’s 70-year-old grandmother, once skeptical, now proudly supports her granddaughter’s dream of becoming a police officer.

A Dream in Uniform: Sabila’s Vision for the Future

Sabila aspires to become a police officer—to serve the nation and be a symbol of strength and justice. Her journey is not just about personal ambition; it’s about rewriting the future of her entire village.

Conclusion: One Girl’s Journey, A Community’s Awakening

From being a girl with no hope of continuing education to becoming an inspiration for others, Sabila’s story is a testament to the power of opportunity, community support, and determination. With the unwavering efforts of Ibtada and the resilience of girls like Sabila, Thanaghora is no longer a village that neglects education—it’s one that celebrates it.